[Why wouldn't it be? It shouldn't be possible for him to meet his dead mother, but he's gotten to do that. Just like Kylo's gotten to meet his mother as a nine year old. If that doesn't show that time is super weird and not as definite as they'd thought. What does?]

I don't either.

[Honesty is the best policy after all.]

But what I do know, is that us being at odds like this is bothering Rey a lot.
I'm not saying you have to like me.
Not even saying you have to forgive me.
Because for one, I haven't actually done anything and two, he hasn't done anything to deserve it.
But there has to be some way we can make this easier on Rey.